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Thursday, December 15, 2011

Lost Day

I didn't get as far as I'd hoped to yesterday so there are no pictures. But hopefully by the end of the day I will have something...maybe two things to show you :-)
I did start two projects yesterday but most of my day was wasted on trying to calm some angry sea's.
It seems the owner of a group I belonged to, took offense at something I wrote (which wasn't meant to be offensive at all) She demanded (rather strongly I might add) that I remove the slanderous remarks from my Blog. At first I had no idea what she was referring to...When I finally "got it" I still didn't "get it" or maybe I just didn't get her and her hostility. She obviously has issues and she obviously does not like thinking that she is being told she "dropped the ball". That's kind of tough , isn't it ? I spent a great portion of my day, and those of you who know me, know I don't waste my time on the computer, trying to help her understand.
I must say, at first I felt bad for this person, I tried to talk to her and explain things , I almost saw a beak through but by the end of the day she was back to accusing and denied any wrong doing. Refusing to accept responsibility for her actions. It was very sad indeed...I have never deliberately hurt another human being...heck I pick up spiders and put them outside rather then squish them... But when a person goes out of her way to assault my character I am left with no other choice then to fight back....She has preached to her group to "keep things private" "do not use her group as a forum to BASH someone" Yet, yesterday she did exactly that...to me. Not only was it not a nice thing to do...She did it once before to the very person she tried to assure me was lying.She posted this persons private e-mails. Nice behavior huh?...There are some people who will always remain childish, never willing to accept responsibility for the hurt they cause others. She is such a person, living in denial of course, and projecting her frustration onto others. Some of you may think you know who I am referring to, some of you may know for sure...Tread lightly is my advice to you.
A friend of mine that knows me well, and knows I've got a lot going on, told me not to waste anymore time on her. She's right...I gave her a day of my life, she hurt me with her misguided anger and I'm done.
This Blog has always been my happy place, I'd like it to be a happy place for anyone that comes here... I would never write anything disparaging about ANYONE, so please..if something I say offends you...don't get angry and send me hate mail...Just write to me and we will take care of it together....I don't do DRAMA.
Now about those pictures....stay tuned :-)


  1. You are so way out of line on this. You don't know her or anything about her. I don't know what happened but I do know HER - personally. And while anyone can have a bad day, she is one of the nicest ladies you will ever know. I don't know you and you may very well be a great person, but right now you sound like a high school kid.

  2. Obviously Elena didn't read the e-mails this wonderful person sent...Mother Theresa would have been up set by them. We don't always know the people we think we know. Negative energy has no place here...

  3. Well, like Elena said - she DOESN'T KNOW what happened.She does not know if you are over the line or not. Period. There is nothing on this blog that identifies anyone or any group - just that a kindness was done for someone you don't know because a swap fell apart. This happens on many groups. As well meaning as you may be defending your nameless friend,on your nameless group Elena - You are out of your element!